Talks & Discussions!

Hi everyone! Its Lauren here, it is around 8pm and we have had an eventful day! This morning even though some of us (including me!) woke up a bit late we got the day rolling and attended mass. After, I was able to come back to the McKenna center and talk with some of the guys. Jacques was one of the guys I had a nice conversation with. We really hit it off discussing books, and our shared love for author John Gresham. Then, Allison and I talked to Latif who really opened up to us about his life in Africa, his personal relationships, his children and also his journey here in DC. It was surprising to me how much he was willing to share about his life, but also very inspiring. Hardships are a part of growing in life, but it truly depends on what you chose to make of those failures that will determine your future successes. This lesson is reflected in many of the conversations I have had with the men, a lesson they had to learn the hard way. They care so much about our well-being and want to make sure we don’t repeat their mistakes. We were divided into groups among the men. We talked about the roadblocks that have occurred in our lives and ways to reduce the frustration and anger that can come in those situations. What one man told me really holds true to any situation, he replaces negativity with positivity. He said that in any hardship if you can take out the bad, you are already halfway to the good. I was also very surprised because the men in my group did not focus on the bad times, but repeatedly said that they were happy in their lives, and had nothing to complain about. They are all truly inspiring people who are filled with great insights, one just has to take the time to listen. Even though this is only day two I have already learned so much from the men, and can’t wait to see what the rest of the week brings!!

Until next time! Love Lauren!